My Confession…I’m Human Too
“I may not be there yet, but I’m closer than I was yesterday.”
Whether it’s through facebook, text messages, emails, a blog post, or face-to-face conversation, I’m constantly offering advice, helpful solutions, and ways to inspire others to lose weight and get in shape. I know that weight loss does NOT occur over night and that it takes HARD work. I try to remind people of this all the time. I’m always the one telling people to forget the number on the scale and to enjoy the experience of their clothes getting looser and body changing. So today, I’m here to share my confession….
This week I have been “having a moment” as I like to say. I have been down in the dumps and discouraged. On Monday, I decided I needed to start a new meal plan in hopes of budging the number on the scale downward as it has been staying in one place lately. This lead me to tears yesterday when I realized I had lost only one pound after following the new meal plan and exercising hard all week. A one-pound loss is a healthy rate for my size and a good sign of continual progress. In fact, for most people, a one-pound loss each week is right on target especially for us women (men lose a little more than a pound a week on average).
Like many of you, I wanted an overnight fix and, logically, this just isn’t possible unless, of course, you chose to have some type of plastic surgery that removes the fat and skin immediately or use a very low-calorie meal plan or “diet” pill that causes you to lose a lot of water weight along with muscle only to gain all the weight back and more later!
However, I expected better results for everything I did. I kicked my training into double time. I worked out 6 days this past week and, trust me, I don’t lift pink dumbbells! Working so hard and eating right is supposed to be what burns fat, right? I know that is a true statement and even though I know it takes time, I allowed myself to focus on a number and open up the pitty party door.
This was a huge mistake and created a downhill spiral effect. Nate knew I was upset with my progress and called me out on it. I went to bed last night in a crummy mood and upset about the slow changes. I woke up with the crappy attitude of “I give up” and moped into the gym at 10:00 am for training with little motivation.
One of my friends, and Underground Fitness Revolution client’s (Laura), was here to train with us and immediately noticed my not-so-happy persona. I wasn’t here two minutes when Nate noticed it again and called me out on it. I started feeling sorry for myself and cried like a baby for the next five minutes in the bathroom.
You would be surprised what staring into a tiny bathroom mirror can do for you. It was my “ah-ha” moment. I had to get a hold of myself fast. This “feeling sorry for myself” garbage wasn’t cutting it and it was time to train. I had 2 minutes to suck it up and get back to working toward my goals. “Negative Nancy,” as Nate called me last night and this morning, got punched in the face and was out the door by the time we finished our warm up. I’m upset with myself for getting so worked up. I have come a very long way and have done so many things I never thought I could have done. I am stronger in both mind and body.
It took Nate calling me out in front of Laura for me to realize that I wasn’t listening to my own advice that I give to so many others that are trying to lose weight and get in shape!
Bottom line: gaining weight is so much easier and more fun along the way. Eating what you want, not exercising, going out and doing whatever may feel great at the time. And it sure is easy to do. And we don’t always see that we’re gaining weight or that our clothes are getting tighter until weeks, months or even YEARS later. But the body looking back at you in the mirror when you are in that state is nothing any of us enjoy seeing.
Losing weight is HARD! It takes a ton of desire, discipline, dedication and hard work. Your muscles will burn and your joints and bones may even ache. The good news is that even with all of the bad the good shines through. Your clothes start getting looser and they eventually become too big. Your self-confidence improves and you start to hold your head a little higher.
By the time I finished today’s workout I had my brain back where it’s supposed to be. I made a huge improvement on two different exercises within our program that I had previously been struggling with and increased the load in almost everything today.
Working out is my motivation. Every time I train, I feel how much stronger I’m getting and it reminds me that my hard work is paying off. I’m not yet prancing around in those size 4 jeans I want so badly but I’m on the right track.
I guess what I’m trying to say is – like you – I’m human. I lose motivation at times. I want to rush things so my progress comes faster. I get frustrated that all my hard work results in such small changes each day or week even though I know those small changes lead to bigger changes that over time provide the awesome results we all want!
It’s easy to offer advice and encourage others with their fat loss and fitness goals when we’re not focused on our own goals or progress. But when we take a look at what we’re doing, we realize that it’s not easy. That it does take hard work. That it does take time. That we don’t always have the motivation to eat right or train hard. We all have our days no matter how hard we try. We just have to remember why we are doing what we do and how important our goals are. Then hit the gym and Crank it harder than you have in a while!
Have a GREAT weekend!
-Jess



















